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This British woman and her family left their lives in London for a better quality of life in Merida, Mexico

In 2016, Cassie Pearse and her family of 4 decided to leave London, UK to explore living in Merida. In this interview, she shares her story and transition on how she ended up in the Yucatan Peninsula.

Compared to London prices, there is no doubt that the cost of living in Merida Mexico is way cheaper. But apart from that, Cassie was looking for something more profound than her disappointment of the quality of life in the United Kingdom.

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All photos in this article were provided by Cassie Pearse. Follow her journey on Instagram, @mexicocassie.

She mentioned how she did not want to adhere to the societal expectations of work-life balance in the UK and that she finds it very unrealistic, stressful, and well… expensive.

Apart from those reasons, Cassie also wanted to have a job where she can spend more time with her kids. The desire to move to Merida Mexico was also amplified by her mission to raise children to be well-rounded citizens and see that there is a bigger world out there than the UK.

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👋 🇬🇧 Goodbye UK, hello Mexico!

Cassie did not move to Merida right away. She first wanted to test the waters so together with her family, they started traveling around Mexico. You will be quite impressed with the amount of Mexico travels this British family has done.

They’ve been to the crazy outskirts of Chihuahua, a destination that many tourists won’t even think of traveling to because it’s unsafe.

She admitted that she did see much bad news about Chihuahua but still felt that she needed to see it for herself. She remembered vividly how her son got sick one night and had to go to the hospital in the middle of the night.

“I ordered an Uber at an odd hour and the taxi driver was so kind.” Cassie remembers how many acts of kindness she witnessed in Chihuahua, not only from the taxi drivers but from everyone.

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At first, Cassie said her children didn’t really agree to move to Mexico but now, they love living in Merida!

Here at Mexico Insider, we cover Chihuahua a lot and we personally go on trips there. We related so deeply with Cassie’s sentiments towards the people of the north. But still, avoid Ciudad Juarez at all costs is our piece of advice.

Apart from Chihuahua, Cassie and her family have been to many destinations in Mexico like Chiapas, Aguascalientes, Colima, Queretaro, and many other places that probably don’t ring a bell to you.

Cassie and her family are very adventurous people and at a young age, her children are very well-rounded travelers. Traveling around Mexico made her children become fluent in Spanish!

She says that they are more Mexicans now than British but they still remember their home in London.

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We don’t advocate conquering other lands in our family but we absolutely do advocate embracing new cultures. My kids may be British/Austrian on paper but in their hearts they’re Mexican, and more specifically, Yucatecan. They’ve lived most of their lives here and it’s clear that this is home.

🪅 Living in Merida Mexico

First stop: Oaxaca and Tulum. Cassie and her family were learning Spanish as this was a high priority. From there, they decided to move to Merida.

Merida is a great place to live with children. It is labeled the safest place in Mexico with lower crime rates compared to the rest of the country.

Adapting to the Mexican school system

Most foreigners and expats who move to Mexico would enroll their children in an International school but Cassie did the opposite: her children went to public schools with Mexican locals as their tribe.

The community she and her family has found in Merida is what made them feel at home here instantly. Every week, Cassie would drive her kids to school and then have brunch with the Mexican moms.

She speaks fluently in Spanish so she did not have to find a tribe of ex-pats from the UK or the US. She actively participated in parent-teacher meetings.

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Homeschooling during the new normal.

Bars, restaurants, and lifestyle in Merida

Within Merida, there are speakeasy bars, artisanal beer bars, and a vibrant nightlife. She also shares how there are plenty of specialty coffee shops and a very serious ice cream culture.

“If you want to see how serious Merida is with their ice cream game, go to Colon at dusk. There, you will find the city’s oldest ice cream shop. Get a cone, sit, and people-watch!”

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Cassie: “I am so happy that my kids think of themselves as Mexican and that they have the gift of an extra culture.”

Expats in Merida

While Cassie is already an honorary Mexican, she still gets in touch with other expats in Merida that are not necessarily British but from all over the world. Canadians, Americans, a bunch of Europeans, and many Latin nationalities like Argentina and Colombia live in Merida.

The expat community in Merida is highly dependent on Facebook. Cassie’s advice is to go on the following groups especially if you are new to living in Merida:

As for real-life interactions, she told us to go to bars such as Henessy’s or La Negrita to meet foreigners and expats. We visited these bars during our field assignment in Merida and Cassie really gave us an insider tip! These bars were so good!

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Cassie is no longer a foreigner in Mexico. From when she moved in 2016, she found a community and a tribe outside of her comfort zone in the United Kingdom.

💲 Cost of living in Merida Mexico

Since Cassie is a part of a family of 4, her expenses are way higher so let’s start with the basic costs of Merida for a single person or a couple:

  • Monthly rent (85 m2): from US$1,200
  • Monthly rent (studio): from US$438
  • Utilities: US$38
  • Eating out at a restaurant in the center: US$13
  • Dinner for 2 (upscale restaurant): US$49
  • Beer in a pub: US$2
  • Cocktails in a club/bar: US$5
  • 500 gr of chicken breast (supermarket): US$3
  • 1 kg of apples: US$2.31
  • A bottle of red wine (supermarket): US$15
  • Gym membership: US$50
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Priorities, priorities, priorities.. You won’t see Cassie spending US$100 on a massage but she’ll definitely willing to pay more than that for a trip with her kids.

Cassie’s monthly expenses in Merida (family of 4)

  • Rent (4-bedrooms): US$1,000
  • Street food adventures with kids: US$1
  • Eating out: US$45

FYI, Cassie has different priorities so these are her normal cost of living in Merida Mexico. The Pearse family are very focused on spending their money on traveling around Yucatan.

“We go on adventures almost every week and I want the kids to be outside all the time as opposed to spending time on their gadgets.”

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👌 Pros of living in Merida

Sustainability and ethics

Cassie shares that Merida has a thriving community of expats (both foreign and national) who care deeply about the environment they are living in Merida.

Merida has a Zero-Waste Market which is held once a month in Merida. They also recycle, buy zero-waste products, support vegan fairs in town, and actively participate in community projects.

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A great base to explore Yucatan

Living in Merida means access to the Yucatan Peninsula: the food, the close proximity to Cancun/Quintana Roo, and of course, the cenotes! Cassie says that they go out almost every week to drive to the next town or do a quick day trip.

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Cassie and her kids in Isla Mujeres, about 5 hours drive from Merida.

Merida is safe

Merida is considered as the safest place in Mexico and in all of North America. Cassie never had to worry about walking with her kids late at night. She also doesn’t feel like she needs to be vigilant with her kids all the time. Which, for her, makes her life in Merida stress-free compared to living in the UK.

Cassie also says that even though Merida is the safest place to live in Mexico, there are still petty crimes and you really can’t say that Merida has zero crimes. It is just relatively lower than other Mexican cities.

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Merida is still cheaper

Compared to other expat cities in Mexico, Merida is still way cheaper. For a family of 4, it is not easy to find a 4-bedroom house in popular expat cities like Puerto Vallarta or Los Cabos.

In Merida, single people can rent an apartment for as low as US$400! As we have traveled Mexico extensively, we love seeing how different cities in Mexico have different costs and that’s what we aim to share with you in our Mexico Expat Life series.

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When asked about the cons of living in Merida, Cassie couldn’t come up with anything so we were really convinced that she fell in love with Merida and is here to stay.

If you plan to move to Merida, we recommend Cassie’s books, Moving to Merida and Yucatan With Kids.

Cassie’s two books about traveling and living in Merida are also now available in Spanish.

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